“Is it woefully inconsistent… that there’s no overt pursuit, or maybe even interest in practicing the gifts (of the Holy Spirit” in our churches?
This is a good question.
Paul commands us in 1 Corinthians 14:1 to “…eagerly desire spiritual gifts especially that you may prophesy“. How do we “eagerly desire” them? Is it then a sin not to?
I found this video by Sam Storms helpful and convicting and think you might too.
Worthily Magnify 
Phenomenal.